When we’re kids, our parents tell us, "Only 5, or only 10, or only 18 more sleeps until… Christmas, your birthday, vacation. In Ephesians 4, Paul tells us to not let the sun go down while we’re still angry. That if we let the devil - or the person who hurt us - camp there, it will create huge problems! So, the question is legitimate and really important; "How long will you drag your past into your future and let your bitterness taint and contaminate your life?" That is, in kids terms - how many more sunsets - sleeps - will you drag your pain behind you?