Most people want to know if someone is using them or committed to them. In love relationships, it’s sometimes really hard to tell the difference, you know – between infatuation – or true love. And when you don’t know, you need to have the DTR talk. The one some guys dread – the Define The Relationship talk. The one that says, “Are we just having fun – or is this relationship actually going somewhere?  When it comes to our relationship with Jesus, He already knows where we’re at – but sometimes we don’t. And we need to know what we’re doing and where we’re going. Are we just fans of Jesus – or will we follow?